March is National Professional Social Work Month and Social Work Today
joins in the celebration and honoring of the critically important work of social workers in hospitals, schools, government agencies, nursing homes, mental health and substance abuse facilities and many other settings too numerous to mention here.
Social workers are the largest group of mental health providers in the nation. Mental health services are provided in all of the settings listed above and more and also in the offices of private practitioners. Our E-news Exclusive is written by one of those social workers who has worked with individuals and couples in private practice for decades.
Let’s say first instead of last that we always welcome your comments and feedback on all of our content, but before you react to this month’s E-News Exclusive, here is a brief disclaimer.
The article is written by an experienced psychotherapist who has seen hundreds of women individually and with their male partners over many years of practice. It is based on her observations and work with women partnered with men or who wish to partner with men. She shares her analysis of how the culturally reinforced fantasies of male/female romantic love have influenced them and fostered unrealistic visions of how relationships work.
Keeping in mind the social work sensitivity to inclusiveness and gender-neutral language, the discussion of whether these culturally supported ideals influence or have influenced lesbian, bisexual, or transgender women is beyond the scope of this article—but may be an interesting topic for someone to explore.
This article also excludes situations in which there is serious psychopathology in one or both of the partners, such as borderline personality disorder or schizophrenia.
The article is not a research-based piece but a reflection of the knowledge, training, and experience of a skilled psychotherapist who is also a social worker with a strengths-based approach and a vision and techniques that have worked … and we think that is still quite valuable!
We hope the article stimulates and informs.
Enjoy, and as always, let us know what you think.
— Marianne Mallon, editor
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